Setting Goals Isn’t Enough: Intentions and Leading Indicators are Critical
Don’t let negative self-talk stop you in your tracks
80per cent of new year’s resolutions fail by February.
There are numerous reasons why people give up before they’ve really got going, one of which is a lack of short-term results.
But goals worth pursuing usually take time to achieve.
It can take months for us to generate real results.
Therefore, it’s critical that we learn how to play the long game.
But how?
We are all susceptible to the optimism bias going into a goal, but our negativity bias can quickly kick in if we’re not seeing immediate results.
If I want to get in shape and I’m not seeing results after several weeks of slogging away in the gym, how do I stay motivated?
If I’m looking to find a romantic partner, but after countless hours spent on mind-numbing dating apps, a half-dozen lousy dates, and a handful of rejections, how do I not throw in the towel?
If I’m wanting to double my company’s revenue this year, but after three months we’re on par with where we were last year, how do I continue believing that this goal is attainable?